WOMEN

Hi there, thanks for thinking about making for me! This is my 'Dear Creator' letter for FemGiftBoxes.

Things I know I panic about and overthink: no preference for cis/trans, any terms to refer to genitalia are good by me, I love fic or art and don't care how long/short or detailed/minimal it is: I really am just happy to be involved. Mix and match my requested pairings, use freeforms from my other requests, or add as much as you like. This is just a more detailled list of what I like in case you prefer more guidance on exchange matches! Treats in any medium, even not exchange-typical such as icons or fanmixes, are welcomed.

General Likes

Settings

• Sci-fi - post apocalyptic, bio/solarpunk, cyberpunk, dystopian, kaiju/mecha, military sci-fi, any sci-fi/horror mashup
• Fantasy - high fantasy, urban fantasy, dark fantasy, historical (if you have actual historical knowledge and can teach me something as well that would be amazing), paranormal, magical realism, fairytale, superhero, cosy, new weird, gaslamp, fae (I LOVE fae worldbuilding)
• Horror - demonic, paranormal (curses and hauntings!), zombie, witchcraft, psychological, comedic, home invasion, torture, folk horror, haunted house, cosmic/eldritch, gothic, epistolary/found footage style, survival in the wilderness
• Coffee shop where opening and closing shifts despise each other OR it is a money laundering scheme

Gender n' Junk

• Cis, trans, I don't care who has what so go and be free with your headcanons (but I prefer canon pronouns!)
• I will love m/m, m/f, f/f, nb/nb, and poly equally
• Any words are fine to use to describe genitals
• Every fictional character is a true switch to me. Strict top/bottom dom/sub who, as far as I'm concerned, everyone is just spaghetti noodling around doing whatever they want whenever they want so if you're writing NSFW, whichever way you write them will be amazing

Topics & Tags Of My Heart

• Character studies / blorbo gazing
• Kidnapping / captivity
• Most 'forced together' tags - hanahaki, x pollen, truth or dare, undercover mission
• Non-socialised character learning to be human (yet to figure out a tag for this)
• Gothic horror / gothic romance
• Processing past trauma in a safe place
• Processing past trauma in an unsafe place
• Character vs the role they think they hold
• Comedy of errors
• Touchstarved

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NSFW Likes

General NSFW Likes

• Kink exploration
• Important personal realisations being had right in the middle of kinky sex
• Character study/development through the lens of smut
• Unreasonable amounts of orgasms across the board
• Hands/mouth/toys treated as 'the fun' rather than a lead up to dick in hole
• Sex to chase away the Big Sads
• Overwhelmed or happy crying/dacryphilia
• Praise and body worship
• Lovingly consensual
• Dubiously consensual
• Nonconsensual but gentle
• Not safe, sane or consensual
• Tickling

BDSM Likes

• Bondage: ropes, chains, predicament bondage, honour bondage, stocks, hogtie, shibari, spreader bars, fucking machines, medical restraints
• Dominance and submission: edging, delay and denial, domestic discipline, impossible or humiliating orders, tickling (especially when paired with bondage and/orhumiliation), medical kink, forced pleasure, begging, nonsexual play, primal play, dom directs sub's gangbang
• Sadism and masochism: impact play (spanking, caning, flogging), hot wax, clamps, 'I love how pretty you suffer', overstim
• I love soft, RACK/SSC-abiding scenes within discussed limits, 24/7 D/S, and 'this is not safe sane or consensual'
• Dynamics: hard dom/bratty sub, pleasure dom/needy sub, experienced dom/new sub that's about to get their shit rocked, new but enthusiastic dom exploring/eager sub that can take whatever the dom wants to dish out, dom/sub reluctant to give up power even though they REALLY need a good subdrop
• Better mental health through BDSM

Darker Likes

• Dubcon where the victim secretly wanted it
• Dubcon where the victim didn't want it before but they do now
• Soft noncon where the victim enjoys themself
• x made them do it / fuck or die
• Weapons play (as a threat or to force obedience)
• Kidnapping/captivity
• Torture (gone wrong gone sexual)
• 'I have to torture you in front of my friends so I don't blow my cover while I'm undercover sorry sorry sorry'
• I am super into tickling in a noncon, interrogation or torture way too. Escpecially if the poor recip is humiliated about being into it!

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AU/Genre Likes

Sci-fi

• Mecha AUs - Pacific Rim (love makes giant robots punch!!), Evangelion AUs, scavenged part mechs in a dystopian world, help the mech I'm in is alive and has its own agenda, the only Gundam I've seen is Witch from Mercury but that
• Alien first contact
• Solarpunk (with bonus body horror)
• Space pirates/smugglers
• Drifting around in a spaceship until plot lands on them as a stowaway

Horror

• Ghost hunter/paranormal investigator/cult infiltrator (gone wrong gone sexual)
• Gothic horror (tortured heroes, dust-covered manors, blood-stained white nightgowns!!)
• Medical whump/torture porn/'take me instead'/'if you don't do it I will'
• Trapped together/captivity
• Based on a myth/retelling
• Creatures of the deep / creatures of the forest / creatures of the night - demon deals and possession, monstrous fae, eldritch infections
• Folk horror (rituals, isolation, stumbling into a witch/cult/creature's back garden and somehow being confused when they're mad about it)
• Surviving the night
• The Mystery Flesh Pit National Park
• Time loops and the existential dread of reliving your own death over and over in different ways
• Haunting failures because the victims are better at this than the ghost / helping lost and confused ghosts
• Turned into a vampire / living blood bag for vampire
• Liminal spaces - deserted stretches of road, a swimming pool after closing time, a deserted shopping centre
• Having mixed feeling about the bloodthirsty entity on Blorbo's side
• Daylight horror
• Marriage of convenience turns extremely inconvenient (because spouse is evil)

BDSM AU

• Sub or dom suffering because they refuse to admit they need this
• 'and they were both subs (or doms)' finding a third
• Shyly asking a friend to help
• Finding a dom/sub through an agency but OOPS it's someone they know
• First time
• Experienced dom/sub couple showing a newer dom/sub couple what to do
• Sub goes through training to NOT submit to dom demands
• Accidentally discovering someone's dom/sub designation through an innocent joke
• Villain uses hero's dom/sub designation against them
• Introducing a switch designation
• BDSM to stave off violent/self-destructive urges

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Art Likes

• Minimalist colour schemes
• Dark jewel tones
• Suggestive rather than explicit
• I love both soft and simple backgrounds, and backgrounds being the focus of a piece!
• Comic/sketchy styles
• Fun with lighting
• Tarot themes
• If you'd be happy for me to use it as an icon or banner, please let me know!

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DNWs

If there's something here that isn't on the DNW list of the signup you matched me on, assume I chose not to include it on purpose, since I tend to just copy-paste my list! If in doubt, ignore this list and use only the text in the actual thing we matched on. Assume that mentions in passing/for background characters are fine unless otherwise specified!

SFW

• Focus on grief/mourning/terminal illness
• Focus on pregnancy/having kids (mentions fine)
• Cheating involving main characters
• Weed culture (other drugs or passing mentions of weed are fine; noncon drugging such as sex pollen or spiking is fine)
• Focus on alcohol
• Cross-gen incest (sister/sister or cousin/cousin is fine even with moderate age gaps; nephew/uncle is not for me... unless we matched on HOTD)
• Not a hard DNW, but skimming or glossing over non-vegan food (such as canonical favourite meals) is appreciated! Exceptions happily made for settings where animal products are necessary for survival. Feel free to kink on making humans into livestock/being treated like animals as long as no actual animals are harmed!
• Fic with no capitalisation (lapslock)

NSFW

• Copious amounts of cum (it exists and that's fine but if there's swallowing/playing with it/snowballing/excessive time spent on it, please gloss over the texture/smell/taste! Cum on someone's back/ass/whatever is fine, noting that it's in their hair/eye and played for laughs is great, coming inside and realising it's leaking out is fine, I just don't find it sexy on its own!)

Archive Warning

• Teeth or eye related body horror (everything else is fair game!)
• Underage (references or mentions in passing are fine if between consenting older teens or if child abuse is part of the plot/characterisation)
• Main character death (unless rectified quickly in a spooky supernatural kind of way!)

 

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Opt Ins / Common DNWs that I love (feel free to give me!)

• Dubcon/noncon/CNC
• Drabble sequences
• Body horror (exception: eyes and teeth)
• Fun with narration, such as 2nd person POV or epistolary like chatfic (but please don't use exclusively text speak!)
• Feet (if they're clean)
• Character bashing a character that's a canonical child abuser in-universe (even if they feel sad about it)
• BDSM, dom/sub, impact play
• Whump
• Sibling incest (or adjacent - I don't mind age gaps I prefer it not cross generations - eg sister/sister is great, but nephew/uncle is not for me. Especially love it if the relationship is antagonistic! This is usually waived for GoT/HoTD.)
• Cannibalism (especially when the eater doesn't know, but the person feeding it to them does; or as a metaphor for codependent love)

Common DNWs that I'm neutral on (if you love it, convince me!)

• Omorashi (in a forced dom/sub context?)
• Knife/blood play (I've only ever used it in a Toga Himiko context but it doesn't disgust me)
• Tentacles (I tend to love interpersonal dynamics and conflicts which I imagine is harder to do with tentacles but I'm not against them)
• Emeto (Fictional depictions don't phase me)
• Micro/macro

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Fandom Specific Likes

Fire Emblem

• There is so much fun to be had with this setting. The horror of time loops / the fun of time loops / the fun of making out in a time loop while incorrectly assuming there will be no lasting consequences!! The lengths they go to for their beliefs! Fighting unwinnable fights because they have to! Body horror that comes from -waves vaguely at everything crest-related-! Taking a prisoner of war but oops they remember sitting next to them in history class!
• Ingrid: despite railing against the gender norms forced upon her, she knows she *has* to try and keep the other Faerghus nobles in line as The Responsible Girl because she's the only thing standing between them and total dissolution, probably. She's got a really interesting take on Faerghan chivalry considering she goes out of her way to take on a warrior role and I think what would cure her is a pretty girl kissing her.
• Mercedes: her entire life has been shaped by the pursuit of crests as people try to play god and here she is, all religious and shit. Very sexy of her. Approximately two inches to the left of her own body at all times and both willing and able to deliver a sick burn and then float away ethereally.
• Dorothea: she knows what it is to be both privileged and disadvantaged and she's honed that into a diamond-sharp blade to carve out a space for her and her loved ones in the world. Despite everything she went through, she's still so kind. She's also willing to drop to her knees and serenade a pretty girl at a moments notice so 10/10 just purely for that tbh. She'd also look great as a gothic heroine kicking the shit out of the beast holding her captive while looking glamorous in a blood-stained white nightgown.
• Edelgard: she's tiny and angry and goddamnit she's got too much to do for how incompetant everyone around her is. She's the emperor of a kingdom but that doesn't stop her shyly drawing fanart of her teacher and laying in bed at night with anxiety tummy aches thinking up names for her new strike force. I'm also fascinated with the effects of her history of experimentation and what that means for present-day Edelgard. Scars? Nightmares? I wanna know!
• Hapi: she's A+ trauma rep for her uncanny ability to tolerate anything except for minor day-to-day inconveniences. There's a certain nonchalance that must come with being able to summon giant demonic beasts toward any threat to her, but I'd love to know how much of her personality is a trauma response and how much is Just Her
• Constance: I am fascinated by gulf between 'well-bred noble who speaks well and exceeds at everything she sets her mind to' and 'the saddest, most passive soggy cat you've ever seen'.
• Lysithea: she is All Or Nothing, no in between. Pretty sure she thinks she should have died during her experiments and treats any time after that as a bonus that should be used solely to improve the lives of her parents, her territory, and her friends and doesn't actually consider herself alive in the traditional sense. Looks impulsive in battle but it turns out that she considered all the possibilities and decided on a near-suicide run anyway because it beats a lingering fight when she's on a deadline. Would not know what to do with a spa day gift card.

Stardew Valley

• There are so many fun things to play with in the world of Stardew Valley - the small town, everyone-knows-everyone vibe, all the cool festivals, whatever the heck is going on in the mines.
• Abigail: I am FASCINATED by the concept that she loved all these amazing magical things and may, in fact, actually be able to cast magic. And who could hate someone that loves rainstorms, graveyards, flute and frogs?? I think she should read everyone's tarot cards with David the guinea pig as her glamorous assistant.
• Haley: I love that you meet her and she comes across as an airheaded, image-obsessed slob - and it's not wrong! She is! She's just also an enthusiastic photographer with a strong sense of self and helping those who need it and she isn't afraid to speak her mind!
• Leah: she's so in tune with the seasons of the valley - and she taught herself that! She comes from the city! She's just that passionate! Knowing that she's willing to punch her unsupportive ex-partner in the face is just a nice bonus.
• Maru: Smart! Compentent! Built a robot in her room and then gave it its freedom just because it asked!! It's also really sexy of her to work at the clinic.

Invisible Inc.

• Banks: Brain damage and a lack of affordable medical care won't stop her siphoning funds from heavily guarded accounts to rebuild her hometown! Slán go fóill!
• Olivia: Her dream of a better world has survived her faked execution, a total turnover of upper management and having to interact with the dumbasses she employs after the torture left her body unable to hold up to the rigours of fieldwork!! She's so competent -swoons-
• Rush: Chanelled her absolutely insane world-class athlete work ethic and determination into protecting innocent people and was executed on live TV for it. ...or maybe spent years imprisoned in a detention centre, or on the run, or...
• Prism: Isn't it WILD that she was a preteen when the Istanbul Four were executed on live TV and then went on to take part in anti-corp protests and eventually fake her death, independently scam corps and then join Invisible Inc.? God I love a good radicalisation story
• Nika: she takes absolutely no shit but is such an unbothered queen that you have to actively be up in her space for her to care. And she's on Invisible Inc.'s payroll?? Terrifying.